What to do when she’s always comparing you with her exes’

I think my partner doesn’t touch me any more because she’s always complaining that she’s tired. She once complained about my penis being small and she’s always comparing me with her exes. What can I do in this situation? I am frustrated.

I think your partner needs to do some growing and healing for her to stop comparing you with her previous lovers because it’s unfair on you. If you feel that she’s avoiding intimacy with you by saying she’s tired, you need to broach the subject with her. A mediator in the form of a counsellor may also prove beneficial in your situation.